One of the puzzling aspects has always been the hype about reading to the kids. Especially when the kids are in bed getting ready to sleep. Movie scenes and sitcoms routinely featured them, and continue to do so. Academics, too, spend a great deal of time talking about the importance of reading to the kids. Libraries organize events where books are read to kids with a great deal of theatrics as well.
I gave away what I think about this with the word that I used, right? Hype ;)
I do not recall my parents or grandparents or anybody ever reading anything to me or any of us kids. Not when I was sitting down. Not when I was lying down. Not when I was standing either.
But, the older folks did read. They read the weekly magazines. They read novels. The environment of everybody reading, especially in those dark ages before the internet--heck, even before television--automatically infused in us kids the reading habit. I can still recall my brother and I fighting over the latest issue of Ananda Vikatan that had arrived and, yes, we tore it up as we both grabbed the magazine to be the first ones to read it. For which the elders yelled at us. Yelling is all they did because there was no spanking the kids!
For the most part, kids are like monkeys that do what others do. If the parents and older folks read, the kids also read. If the parents and older folks watch television, then that is what kids also do. Kids, I have always felt, cannot be easily fooled with advice from the older folks when that preaching is not practiced by the elder.
Thus, I had more than a chuckle when I read (get it? I read!) yet another article on the difference that reading to a child makes!
British researcher Don Holdaway was the first to point out the benefits of shared reading. He noted that children found these moments to be some of their happiest. He also found that children developed positive and strong associations with spoken language and the physical book itself, during these moments.You, with a sharp and critical mind, are thinking, "but, hey, haven't we moved past books now, in this digital age?" Yes. Which is why the research also spews bullshit like this:
Since then a number of studies have been conducted showing the value of shared reading in children’s language development, especially in vocabulary and concept development.
While shared reading is often associated with print books, shared reading can be extended to digital texts such as blogs, podcasts, text messages, video and other complex combinations of print, image, sound, animation and so on.Yes, now the kid and the parent can play "good video games" together ;)
Good video games, for example, incorporate many learning principles, such as interaction, problem-solving and risk-taking, among others.
I suppose the more "advanced" we get, the more easily we forget the simple, basic, aspects of life, such as if you want kids to do something, well, first make sure you do that yourself. Practice what you damn preach!